For seven years I have felt its them and then there is us. Let me explain My boyfriend and I moved in
together about seven years ago. We each have children he had two and I had one that still lived at home. At first things were OK with the exception my son and I
weren't included in things. They always would go places and do things and leave us out. We then had a child
together and now she is 5 years old and I still feel as though its them and us (me and my son). Last night my son came home late, and you know who took the key so he could not get inside. My son is 15 years old and is in no way a perfect angel, he is not even a good sneak. In fact most of the time he gets caught because he is to dumb to hide the
evidence.
Anyhow, he should not have been denied access to the main house, this
meant no food or drink, no bathroom, he only had access to the
foo ton in the garage room. Now His children basically have an apartment down stairs each has their own bathroom and a full kitchen separate from the main house. They can come and go and do as they please with basically no punishment (being told I'm
disappointed is not a punishment in my eyes), The girl gets her belly button pierced (after being told no) and
sneaks and gets two
tattoos (keep in mind she is only 16). He has taken her to get
birth control (thank god for small favors). The boy is 18 and stays out until 4am comes home stoned and drunk but this is OK.
My son comes home late he used to get ground for a freaking month but now he gets locked out. I
believe that my son
probably breaths wrong in his eyes. And I can almost
guarantee if things
don't change I will lose my son or We will have to move.
The only thing I have been asking for for seven years is..... The rules are the same for each child, and the punishment should be the same for each child.
We got into a blowout today about the key thing. He states his kids
don't come upstairs late at night. I say why should they they have bathrooms and a full kitchen, cable TV and cell phones what the f*** do they need the upstairs for. On the other hand
my son , no bathroom, no cable TV, no cell phone, no kitchen I think and say he can be upstairs all he wants!!!